Embracing sisterhood: Travel squad inspiration

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I promote solo travel often in my blog, because it’s a fairly new experience for me. But I must admit one truth: I MISS MY GIRLFRIEND GETAWAYS. I miss the late night girl locker room talks, being silly, catching up on life, seeking advice, and being surrounded by those that “get” me and still love me in spite of my shortcomings. Overall, I guess once could say that I miss my sister friend connections. Through the years, I’ve lost many of those connections. Some were by choice and others were due to life taking us in different directions. And there’s no love lost. We get married, we have children, we pursue advanced degrees, we start business ventures, we get promoted into demanding positions, we have aging parents that require our attention, and we even relocate. I get it, life happens. In the midst of balancing life’s demands, friendships sometimes fall the wayside. But, as truthful as this all sounds, it would be dishonest of me to blame all of my lost connections on life changes. The truth is, while I excel in attracting connections, I suck at maintaining them. I don’t know if I should blame it on my introverted personality or my Gemini cusp Cancer moon sign. I don’t know if I should blame it on my desire to retreat and cut myself off from the world when I’m going through life’s storms. And I don’t know if it’s my pride in being self-sufficient and feeling like I don’t need anyone. But whatever the reason, none of those should ever be an excuse. Friendship/sisterhood is a reciprocal relationship. Just like a marriage or any other relationship of significance, it requires effort by both parties. It requires communication and reaching out. It requires giving and sacrificing. It requires you calling to check in when you don’t feel like it. It requires you to show up to baby showers and children’s parties when you’d rather do a child-free event, because motherhood is a touchy subject for you. It requires you to be vulnerable and let your friends know that you’re going through something and you need help (or you’re still okay). To maintain a friendship, you have to be a friend – a very basic exchange, one that I struggle with getting right.

I hope to have those kind of connections again someday. But until then, in honor of my nostalgia, I bring you my top Instagram Travel Squad photos that will make you want to phone your sister friends, organize your travel squad (or rent one), and get into travel formation. Here’s to not taking our friendships for granted…here’s to restoring our sister friend connections…and here’s to making new connections. And remember, friendships must be nurtured or they will eventually die.

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ATVs in Cancun (Credit: @pglammednyc)

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Formation in Bali (Credit: @dispoetzsoul)

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Rio slayage at the Parque Lage in Brazil (Credit: @ashcaldc)

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Sisterhood in Paris (Credit: jonesin4jonesy)

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Caping in Madrid, Spain (Credit: @theslaycation)

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An effortless slay in Salvador De Bahia, Brazil (Credit: @jnambowa)

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Formation in Castillo San Cristobal, San Juan Puerto Rico (Credit: @akafly12)

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Bridal squad goals at the Chichen Itza, Cancun Mexico (Credit: @lolizee21_)

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Bridal squad goals continued (Credit: @lolizee21)

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That one time Cartagena, Colombia wasn’t ready (Credit: @hunnibre)

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One of my last sisterfriend trips with my Sorors to Curacao back in 2014 (Credit: @urbantravelista)

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3 thoughts on “Embracing sisterhood: Travel squad inspiration

  1. I have been trying to get my friends together to do this! I love woman coming together and having beautiful experiences! There is so mucm more than just club hopping all the time. I told myself I was starting THIS SUMMER! With or without them lol Great website!

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